Dear friend,
This is a very sad situation, I can understand how frustrating must be for you BUT don't let them take this from you.You have worked too hard to leave it like this. Try to put yourself back together, apply again at the embassy (maybe that visa officer had a bad day - who knows), eventually call at ECFMG (explain to them the situation, see how they can help you : maybe they will write/send a letter of support to you to present it at the interview). Don't quit! Try everything possible, try to make a strong case for the interview. See how ECFMG can help in this situation. I will keep you in my prayers
lz: to get through this.
This is a very sad situation, I can understand how frustrating must be for you BUT don't let them take this from you.You have worked too hard to leave it like this. Try to put yourself back together, apply again at the embassy (maybe that visa officer had a bad day - who knows), eventually call at ECFMG (explain to them the situation, see how they can help you : maybe they will write/send a letter of support to you to present it at the interview). Don't quit! Try everything possible, try to make a strong case for the interview. See how ECFMG can help in this situation. I will keep you in my prayers